what happens when you surrender

This post is inspired by my client last night who pulled an oracle card of surrender. The picture above is an Aztec deity from another deck. She is earth mother and life-and-death mother. She knows grief personally as her own daughter's life was taken hence the luminous symbol she offers up to the sky. The way to wholeness lies in going through. As life seasons change, all is in a state of transition. Your process takes as long as it needs to. Your job is to "feel" so the healing can come. Back to surrender..........

My scorpio moon wanted to dig deeper, so here goes. To not surrender is deeply connected to the suffering, resistance and disharmony that humans create for themselves. As coach, I encourage, support & show you personally how to turn inward intimately with the underworld, the shadows, the darkness until all that is dying has gone and disappeared. I walk with you through the valleys of the unknown, the ungroundedness, the difficulties of navigating a new life until you begin to experience your electrifying lighter body.

What happens when you dance with the whole of duality:

doors open where previously there were none

wild, fluid, dynamic synchronicities start showing up

a channel opens up that you were not tuned into that brings opportunity

intimate relationships get tuned up and/or connected to a higher frequency

money flows in ways that feel awesome, authentic & easy

life gets really, really good!

Why?

Because you are a live wire of feeling & inspiration. When you get clear on what you want, who you are, your vibration gets lighter & what you are attracts to you quickly and with accuracy. When you are unsure, cluttered or not willing to surrender to what no longer works in your life as an important part of you; that ultimately slows your vibration & your desires are harder to manifest.

My wish for you is that you become honest and open to your vulnerability & own your desires. That you can be surrendering to grief at at the same time ecstatic to what you are opening to as if you were a child on christmas morning.That you keep moving forward, the answers are within you. Love yourself deeply, while stepping along the path. The magic awaits.

How can you feel more? When a feeling comes up, give it time & space. Let it show you where it is stored in your body/mind. Retreat if necessary to give yourself permission & privacy. As you breath fully into the feeling, place your attention there with compassion and your hands gently touching the wounded area. That's it. Til the next time. Be patient with yourself, you didn't get there over-night. Be organic with the process, maybe write, or move. Do some intentional yoga stretching or dance if that feels satisfying. When you feel as if you have given yourself the sacred time, close with a deep breath & release it slowly. Give thanks & praise yourself for the courage to be with the grief/loss/pain.

I believe when two people work together they create a magic web of energy that reinforces, makes stronger the intention and moves it quicker into the Universe. I invite you to see for yourself. I want to celebrate you, honor and respect you when you cannot do it for yourself. I want to reflect back to you your feminine divinity. I have been to the dark places and know how to hold grief, sorrow & despair and hear the voice of transformation calling me. It's important to have someone trustworthy, experienced & honorable when you are moving through challenges. Feel free to set up a free 15 minute consult with me to see if I am a good fit for you here https://soulcoachshere.as.me/